Believing like Buddy the Elf

Dec 5, 2011

set apart

In Dallas, the struggle for those who claim to be “Christians”, isn’t persecution, it’s living “set apart”. A lot of people attend church in Dallas but very few live in a way that would show they served God.

How do we as moms who love God wholeheartedly and want to serve Him make Him known? Particularly in a community where everyone goes to church, is involved in humanitarian efforts, and may even attend a Bible study?

I’ve lived in places like San Francisco where wearing a ring with a cross on it made a bold statement for Christ.  It was easy to be “set apart”. Believing in God was enough to make me different in that community.


One of our family’s favorite Christmas movies is “Elf” with Will Farrell playing the main character “Buddy”.

If you haven’t had the pleasure of watching this fabulous flick, then let me give you a quick synopsis. . .

Buddy is a human who was raised by Papa Elf in the North Pole. One day when he struggled with not belonging in the elf world…not fitting in. His adopted father told him about his biological dad and how to find him in New York City.

What we love about Buddy is his enthusiasm and childlike-faith in all things Christmas. There is no doubt in his mind that Santa exists because he knows Santa. There is joy in all things related to Santa and Christmas. Most importantly he is determined in everything he does to share that passion with others.

At the end of the movie, Santa’s sleigh is broken and the one way to make it fly is for more people to believe in Santa. Here are ways hearts began to belive:

  1. Knowing Buddy well, they were “won over” by his enthusiasm
  2. Presenting tangible evidence (showing Santa’s list)
  3. Sharing in the joy of singing together–emotional experience
  4. Seeing Santa for themselves

Buddy was “set apart” in New York City. Everything he did (even how he dressed) was different. He whole-heartedly believed in something. He didn’t believe begrudgingly. He believed with enthusiasm, joy and passion. He couldn’t help but share his love with others.

faith with joy

How do we stand out in our own communities? Do we have that kind of passion & joy for our God?

Our God is so much more amazing than the “god” that Buddy believed in. Our God doesn’t make toys and deliver them in one night. Our God created the entire universe! Our God saw us in our sinful state and instead of condemning us, he was gracious enough to send His own son to die for us (John 3:17). That’s something to celebrate!

Why don’t we share God with those around is in a way that draws them to His heart? Why do we act like Christianity is a burden? Why do we allow the activities to take away our joy instead of doing them out of joy?

How are we “set apart”?

Here are some ways we can believe like Buddy:

  • Know God intimately (can only be passionate about a person we know)
  • Grasp the miracle of all He has done for us…be in awe
  • Know the tangible evidence of God’s great story…be knowledgable
  • Everything we do should be consumed with our love for Him
  • Not concerned with what others think
  • Enter conversations with innocence and assume the best of others
  • “The best way to spread (Christian) cheer, is singing loudly for all to hear”

Maybe one way we can stand apart (particularly during the holidays) is to Buddy’s favorite thing–> SMILE!

“I like smiling. Smiling is my favorite”(Buddy the Elf)

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Romans 15:13


  1. Alexis

    This is SO true! I hope I never watch the movie again without thinking of that!

  2. Misty

    You always have great illustrations and I appreciate that you are so faithful to share! Thank you. I think it’s important, though, to recognize that joy and happiness are two different things. For me, I see joy/experience joy when I am focused on God and His Hand in circumstances (good and bad), but I am not necessarily in a “happy mood” in every circumstance. Since God is more concerned with our holiness than our happiness and we are promised that we will be given trials so that we might be more conformed in HIs likeness, we can be joyful in the hardships of life because we know that God is working on us for His glory. As I go about my day doing my primary ministry (loving and serving my family), I don’t “feel” joy like Buddy felt joy, but I am SO thankful that God’s Hand is on, and thus I have the Spirit’s gift of joy.

    • Heather MacFadyen

      Good point misty! I think that what we love about Buddy is not that he is just “happy” but that he fully believes in all things Christmas and he experiences simple joy in believing. I think that those whom I know who are truly finding joy in their relationship with Christ show it in their interactions with others. They are unconcerned with what others think of them. They are fully consumed with the love of their Father and can’t help but share that with others. Different from happy. Deep joy and love.

      • Misty

        Thanks, Heather. Yes, I agree that it is obvious when someone has a deep, fulfilling love relationship with God! I appreciate you!

  3. POPS

    Great blog!!!


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